Women of Any Age Can Be Beautiful

So…what’s so great about young women?

As guys reach my age range (42, if you must know) it’s not uncommon for them to be attracted to younger women, especially if he’s newly single due to divorce. Of course, it’s pretty common in general for the man to be older than the woman. There are plenty of reasons for this, and while some of those reasons make some sense, a lot of them are very narrow of vision.

A few weeks ago, I advised a 41-year-old recently divorced man who described how he was only attracted to younger women. He found young women fresh and exhilarating, with bright and curious minds…and he found the look of admiration in their eyes rejuvenating. And of course, they have toned figures, flawless skin and gravity-defying breasts.

By contrast, women his own age were completely unattractive to him…he said they all have grey attitudes, are bitter and jaded (especially the still-single ones)…and that they’ve lost their femininity.

I pointed out to him that you see what you choose to see.

You always attract what and who reflects your current emotional level, your beliefs, and who you are at that time. I told him that, although I’m no stranger to dating younger women, I’ve also found plenty of women in their 30s and 40s who absolutely sparkle with vibrancy and have the complexity, maturity, and developed intelligence (not just a bright and curious mind) to match. There are still bitter and jaded women out there, but the jewels who hold on to their femininity are out there, too…and they can give you everything a young woman can and unbelievably more.

There are qualities of youth that are undeniably attractive…but if this is the only way you see women, it will do you good to expand your view.

By looking deeper, you will enhance your ability to perceive beauty and appreciate it in women. The inner qualities that make a young woman appear enticingly feminine can actually increase as a woman matures. If a woman fosters it through nurturing and maintaining these feminine qualities—especially if you tune yourself to see it—then her radiance and inner light will grow as she gets older, rather than fade.

I’m going to go into deeper detail on these inner qualities of femininity in a later post…but in a nutshell, I mean those qualities that are complementary to (and therefore both attractive and attracted to) masculinity.

And if you’re a younger guy, you don’t need to be into hunting cougars to put this principle to work, because your ability to see and appreciate inner beauty will actually make you more attractive to women…all women. Being capable of seeing a 90-year-old woman as a radiant goddess will make the 23-year-old hottie melt.

Your ability to appreciate female beauty on every level will help whatever woman you choose to spend time with understand that you see what is inside her clearly…that you appreciate her on all levels.